The World’s Sexiest Budget
My budget was butt ugly before I started webcam modeling. We’re talking thousands of dollars of credit card debt. We’re also talking about a lame job where I worked my ass off just to scrape by each month, and a budget with absolutely no wiggle room! Every time I went out or made an impulse purchase, I felt a pang of guilt knowing that I was just adding it to my heap of debt. I felt trapped, like I was running in circles just to survive. Ever feel that way?
Not only did I want out of the proverbial rat race, but I wanted a sexy budget. I wanted a budget that smoothly covered all my expenses, paid down my debt, saved for rainy days, and left a little wiggle room for going out and pampering myself. Too lofty a goal? I think not.
As a webcam model I eventually tripled my income potential, and doubled my actual income because I’m lazy (key word here is eventually; it took time and patience!). I began to build the budget of my dreams.
So let’s assume that you’ve been camming for a couple months and have a loyal group of regular customers, and you’re seeing the money coming in. Initially you might be tempted to splurge in celebration of your success, but wait just a minute. It’s way sexier to create a budget that you can feel good about, one that never makes you feel bad about yourself, one that is tall and dark and handsome. What? Oh right, we’re talking about budgets. Moving along.
How to Create the World’s Sexiest Budget
I’m going to refer to something called the You Need A Budget Method (YNAB). It’s so sexy. It’s the budget of the future, lol. The YNAB Method follows four basic rules.
Rule 1. Give every dollar a job.
Rule 2. Save for a rainy day.
Rule 3. Roll with the punches.
Rule 4. Live on last month’s income.
Pretty simple, right? So let’s do that.
1. Give every dollar a job.
First we need to create a list of jobs. That will look something like this:
Then as the dollars come in, each one is assigned to a category. The thing that is different about this method is that you never budget with dollars you don’t already have. There’s no guesswork to be done. When you’re deciding whether or not you have money to spend, you are not looking at your account balance. You are looking at your category balance. That way, when the bills come in, you’ve already assigned dollars to those categories, and you can use the category balance to pay them.
2. Save for a rainy day.
Now we need some categories for those annual, semi-annual or emergency “jobs”. As a self employed webcam model, you will need to set aside some money for paying taxes. I personally do this by taking off that percentage from every paycheck, and putting those dollars to work in my taxes category. That’s just my preference, but the rainy days obviously come secondary to immediate and predictable monthly expenses. Other rainy days that might come up include car insurance, home/car repairs, medical bills, holidays, tuition, etc. Create the categories and assign some available dollars.
You’re taking those larger expenses that often creep up when you’re not ready, and dividing them into smaller chunks each month. This way you’ll never get blindsided and those expenses will be much more manageable.
This is also where you’ll start saving for longer term goals like a down payment on a house, a car, a new computer, or that really nice expensive webcam with full HD and zoom/pan action.
3. Roll with the punches.
Overspend in a category? Cancel a vacation? Move your money around and make your dollars work for you where you need them to. You da boss.
4. Live on last month’s income.
The YNAB method breaks the paycheck to paycheck cycle. How? While you’re getting started using this method, one category you’ll want to create is known as a buffer. Any dollars that aren’t needed for other jobs are assigned to the buffer, and you keep adding available dollars until you’ve set aside enough money to cover a month in advance.
Eventually, you won’t even need to touch this month’s income until next month. This will of course be a process, and the other three rules of this budgeting method will get you there.
That’s what makes this budget so sexy lol.
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Put the YNAB Method into Practice
You can set this budget up on paper, with envelopes if you use cash, or perhaps design a spreadsheet for yourself. You can also do it with the software that is designed specifically to work with this method. If you’re into that, they’re currently selling the family license (meaning you can use it on all the computers in the household) for $60, or you can even try it free for 34 days. The links on this site will save you 10% and support U Camgirl at the same time! (I’d call that a win-win lol)
There are training videos, live webinar classes and a lot more details about the YNAB method on their website. All these resources are free. Check out YouNeedABudget.com.
Comments or questions about the world’s sexiest budget, or the YNAB method? Comment below and I’ll respond ASAP!
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Thanks a lot Angie, and I wanna tell you, you are and were my main resource answer a lot of the questions I had and helped me deciding with your articles. I am planning on working both, I got response from Internet Modeling and I need to fix a couple of things but it’s going =). I was on today again but just for a couple of hours and got 18 favorites from yesterday and 2 5 star ratings from my guys a lot of the guys that showed up for my show yesterday came back today! I should be able to dedicate more time next week =). One thing that I’m having some issues to deal with it’s the fans, that want my number, etc/ Any advice on this? Thanks a lot again!
So nice to hear you’re doing well! Sounds like you are already building your fan base too, which is awesome! Way to go
As for fans that ask for your number – if you want to offer phone service, both Internet Modeling and 5 Points have an option under your profile where you can set it up so that your number remains confidential. On Internet Modeling it’s called Confidential Phone Service and on 5 Points it’s the FlirtPhone. I’ve tried both and they work great! A bonus with the FlirtPhone is it actually costs your fan a little extra to use it, which is good for you
Your fans should know better than to be asking for personal information like that, and generally the ones that do aren’t worth your time. This is where you’ve gotta keep control of your room. You can approach it however you like, except for giving in. My policy is to just say No and if they persist, I warn them that I don’t give that information out – ask me again and see what happens (you can always kick them out them if they’re bugging you lol). You da boss Lucy!
And so I had my first day, IT WAS AWESOME! I gave 8 private shows and I was on just 200 minutes and made 50 bucks. Guys were incredible super nice and the compliments were awesome. My best one spent mostly chatting with me 12 minutes and actually he had to go answer the door but didnt disconnected bad thing my landlord came and I had to go =( I was still dressed but he gave me a 5 star rating anyway and he is coming back. I had the most funny proposals, guys wantin to take care of me. All and all it was great and I’ll be back tomorrow for sure! I’m still waiting on 5 points so I did this on Internet Modeling and I’m super happy!
Wow, that is awesome! Congrats Lucy! I’m so glad to hear you had a good first day on cam. It’s so motivating right? Streamate is great while you’re in the “new model” category, but ultimately I’m not sure you’ll find the support you need if you ever run into problems or questions. Anyway I hope things continue to go well for you whether you decide to stick it out on Streamate or transition to Internet Modeling (or do a bit of both if you feel like it haha). I’m so proud hehe. Keep it up girl!
I’m just starting with this. Well I haven’t started yet actually trying to decide which site should I use (I’m mostly thinking on InternetModeling) I’m so red in my debts that I think I’m bordeaux, this article is great and I find myself bookmarking more and more of your articles, you are a light in darkness for sure. Any tips for bilingual models? My english is pretty great my mother tongue is spanish and I also speak some portuguese. All and all I just wanna thank you for everything.
Thanks so much for your comment Lucy! I’m so happy to know my posts have been helpful to you. Internet Modeling is definitely a great option, especially when you’re just starting out!
As for bilingualism, it’s something you can add to your model bio when you’re setting it up (there’s a section that asks what languages you speak, at least with Internet Modeling – not sure about other sites, but I imagine it would be the same). Since customers come from all over the world, some may be looking for a model who speaks Spanish, or Portuguese, and this will broaden the scope of your customer base!
One piece of advice I would give is to try to stick primarily to English while you’re in free chat, since that is the language most customers speak. When they ask, you can totally switch over just for a bit if you feel like it I would save most of it for private shows though, since that is one “niche” or special quality you have that sets you apart from many models, and that’s one thing that will attract customers to your room.
I know what you mean about being so in debt!! It sucks. Definitely give the YNAB method a try (you can get a free trial for 34 days and free live webinars on how to use it). I think you might really benefit from this, especially if you decide to start camming. It saved my ass, let me tell you lol.
Again, thanks for your kind words! If you ever have any questions (on camming, or the world’s sexiest budget haha), please feel free to talk to me anytime!
All the best,
Angie
I am glad I read this article, Angie. The resources you provide here to create a sexy and SMART budget are amazing. I love the logs and I can see how they can help me achieve my financial dreams. Thanks for sharing!
Hilda
I’m so glad you found value in this article, Hilda (no pun intended)! Thanks for commenting — now go achieve your financial dreams!
Angie
Hey Angie, this is interesting software that might help my current situation. I always spend more than I earn. I going to test it out. Great post, keep it up!
Thanks
Cena
Hi Cena,
That sounds a lot like my former situation. I’m sure you will find YNAB very helpful if you stick with the method Let me know how it goes!
Cheers,
Angie
Great post Angie! Solid principles that will get you in the green. Or black, er, whatever color it is those accounting peeps use. Love your writing, you’re so entertaining! Well, off I go to create my own tall, dark and handsome budget lol…
Thanks Jolie! Glad you enjoyed this one. Now go enjoy your sexy, sexy budget haha
Great post and good info. I like your ideas for budgeting and keeping track of what you make and how to spend it. Always good to have your money and income under control. Thanks, Kristina
Thank you Kristina! I appreciate your comments. All the best
Well written. Any help with budgeting is useful for everyone, and sometimes its hard to figure out where to start. This points me in the right direction!
Thank you Liam! I’m glad to hear that you found this article helpful. Thanks for taking the time to comment!
Hi Angie! I really enjoyed this blog post. Budgeting is very important indeed. I try my very best to do it properly and I use an excel sheet for this. I’ve done some accounting during my high school days. There was a subject that involved accounting. I apply the things that I’ve learned there to my excel sheet. Anyway, great job!
Hi Muriel! I’m sure an Accounting course would be very helpful in knowing how to deal with those excel sheets. Good for you! I’ve personally never had the opportunity to learn that kind of thing, so I find the YNAB software helpful since it does everything for me Thanks for stopping by and commenting! Cheers.
Great post, Angie. Any advice on how to calculate the average emergency budget?
Thanks Oliver! If you check out the training over at YNAB’s website, they recommend starting with a goal of a $1000 emergency budget. I personally recommend one month’s income, on top of the buffer. Of course it depends on the individual situation. Some people prefer to have six months of emergency budget set aside. I think that’s overkill personally, but it’s all about your own priorities. We still have to look at paying down debt and saving for the future as well. Hope that’s helpful to you. Thanks for the question! Cheers.
Hey this is great, thank you! It doesn’t matter who we are, we all need to keep on top of our finances, and this is a nice clear way of getting organized. Just what I need right now!
Thanks.
Peter
You’re welcome Peter, I’m happy to hear you found some value in this post. It definitely works for me!
All the best,
Angie